Marine gift idea? How come didn't I receive phone call from my fiance?

I am engaged to my Jar head (Marine recon) who has been in Iraq for a little over 1 month. I haven't received any phone calls from him. The other girl from our support group has received several phone calls already, and her husband is a regular Marine officer. There were many people told me that no news is good news, but I couldn't sleep, and I had bad dreams about him getting hurt. I couldn't concentrate. I kept on dreaming about his body parts fly all over the places, stuff like that. I don't get any support from my family who thinks I made a mistake by having a relationship with him. They think my future is doomed. Right now, it is only me myself and a hope that I will see him soon. How can I find out if he's safe? Also, I have his address, it is a APO/FPO address, do you think sending him a gift basket full of chocolates, cookies, little cakes, and some DVDs is a good idea? thank you
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Dont sweat it too much, the reason the other girl has gotten calls is because her husband is an officer. Your fiance is an enlisted man comes with alot of restrictions, he'll call when he gets the chance but I bet he's got his hands full right now. I dont think sending chocolate or any foods that dont do well in heat is a good idea but anything solid and small and a reminder of you is great, send him some photo's of your smiling face. Good luck hope you hear from him soon.
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