Baby mama Drama...what to do?

My husband has a 4 yr old back home in florida that his baby momma just approached him with three months ago. He claims he knew there was a chance he could have gotten her preg, but they broke up a month after they had sex. So he never knew of a baby. When she called him and said they had a 4 yr old son, I was excited becuz I have had a hard itme having kids, and i LOVE children. Off top she was going off on him about seeing his son. So b4 his trip there I bought the kids sum cool stuff and made like a big a5s gift basket. At the last minute he asked me to tag along. So i did, we got htere and i got a hotel room, and rented a car. I never disrespected her by showing my face. He decided to bring Jr back to memphis with us for a month. We have been home two weeks with the lil guy. Ive taught him to call me by my first name, even tho i am his step mom. She calls OUR house daliy cursing me out. Sayin don't touch her son, dont feed him I may try to poisen him becuz Im jealous that she has >
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The only thing you can do is kill her with kindness. Take really good care of her son, he is four years old and can talk. I'm sure if anything happened he would say something to her and I am sure she asks him things. As far as her calling and disrespecting you, that's something that your husband needs to take care of. I mean if I was the baby momma, I would want to treat that other person with respect, because that person has to be around my child and I don't want anything that I said or done to be taken out on my child. That's something that she should think about. I would tell your husband that he needs to tell her that- not to say that with her acting dumb would make you want to harm her son. She obviously knows that there is nothing to worry about if she let her son stay with you guys for a month, she just wants to play the ignorant baby momma role and bring drama. Don't worry about her let her cuss you out and act a fool and you stay classy and handle your relationship with your husband and your step son.
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