My bf of 3 yrs & 7 mths, told me 4 days ago, after I had a screaming fit with him that he finally had had enough of my intolerable ways. He says he needs his space right now. He said he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me but just doesn't see that happening. We are childhood sweethearts and have known each other since we were 3. We have so many wonderful things in common and memories together. I sent him a gift basket to work today to try and say i am sorry. Was this a wrong move? He still calls me 3-4 times a day. Most of the time its: "Hey. How are you doing? i was just checking on you." Sometimes I say I Love you and he doesnt say it back. Today he said it back. I asked him if everything was going to be ok with us and he said he didnt know he had to think about it. its been 4 days and still no answer. this is our first sepeartion and the longest we've went. Were are we going from here? Someone please help before he leaves me for good! I love him more than life!
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Wow, this is harder than most folks have it, b/c of your very long history together. BUT you will be OK, no matter what. When you get that idea into your head, that you will survive no matter what. You will not be so needy that is pushes him furhter off. In fact, he might miss you more and come around on his own terms. Then you need a little counseling. Just someone uninvolved otherwise, who will be able to help you get to what's important. What's intolerable? Why? What does he do that sets it off so that he can point it all on you? And you go from there.
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