Monday, April 4, 2011

Is "Don't waste your breath talking to me!" direct enough to tell a guy off after he disappointed you??

He asked me to make him something...a gift basket. We're friends so I went ahead to make him happy. I don't usually, but this guy is usually nice. Well now he says he still wants it but acts like he doesn't!!! I'm mad and I want to know how other ppl would handle this situation. I have decided yet whether still being friends is important...so tell me in your statement how to handle it and if still being friends is right or wrong!
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I dunno if you wanna tell him not to waste his breath because he might take that as you NEVER want to speak to him. It sounds like he is playing mind games with you. Its NOT cool I like people to say what they mean and do as they say. I think the best way to handle this would be to play games right back. Tell him you gave his basket to someone else (You don't really have to do that though) I think that by giving him the basket now when he's acting rude and not showing interest in it, and not picking it up when he said he was going to would be rewarding him for bad behaviour. Men are kind of like kids and most of them are dogs so why not treat them like one. You have to train them just like dogs. When he does something good reward him by giving him the basket or saying something nice to him. When he is bad then don't talk to him or give him any attention, put him in the "doghouse,' figuratively. Hope this helps.
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