My grandpa is on kemo for prostate cancer. He's not nauseous and still has his appetite, but is diabetic- so sending sweets is out. He is so weak and tired- I live in NY and he's in Idaho- I can't be there to care for him but want to show him I still care so much- Do you have any thoughtful practical gift ideas? I call weekly to talk and tell him I love him- I just want to give something tangible that can help him feel better... i think i should give my grandma something too- she's going through soo much right now with him being sick... (they just had their 60th aniversary!)
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I just read the best book: Kitchen Table Wisdom: Stories that Heal by Rachel Naomi Remen. It is a national best seller and it's not hard to see why. This author is a doctor, a counselor (for cancer patients), and a patient herself (has suffered from a chronic condition since her teens). This book is a collection of short 1- to 2-page stories that are so inspiring. I couldn't put it down ("I'll read just one more...okay, no, just ONE more...") I highly recommend it for any cancer patient. Many of the stories are cancer-related. The good news is you can purchase this book on Amazon in like new condition for $6-$8 (including shipping). If your grandfather enjoys reading even a little, this would be the perfect thing to send: inexpensive, easy to ship, and extremely uplifting/inspiring. As far as your grandmother... I watched my sweet mother-in-law selflessly care for her cancer-stricken husband for over 3 years. I remember wanting to do something to help too, so I gave her a certificate for a day spa - to help her relax and rejuvenate. She used it to get a pedicure. She told me it was heavenly - just what she needed. Best wishes to your grandparents!
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