my husband has a really good friend that has a son from his first marriage, he is now remarried and has 3 kids with his (now) wife, i know he has his son sometimes, i don't know the arrangement, he never discusses it, i know he doesn't have him full-time, we just started (this year) trading b.d. gifts, so i assume we will trade Christmas gifts too, so do i buy gifts for his son too? i'm not planning on getting anything big for them, i was actually gonna give them a whole family gift, they are really outdoorsy so i was thinking something like a family plaque, or a sundae gift making basket, Photo-Opoly Personalized Board Game, something for the whole family, so as a mom would you get upset if your husbands friends bought your step child a gift? or would you get upset if they didn't include him? as a mom would you buy him a gift, because it's not fair to give a gift to the others and not him, but our friend and his 1st wife don't get along well at all, so i don't want to cause trouble between her and him by giving their son a gift, so as a mom, what would you do? we've been friends with him for 4 yrs, we knew his first wife, and she never liked any of his friends, so she doesn't like us as it is. and they fight a lot, i don't want to cause a fight between them, so....thank you so much.
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i say screw the ex wife, what kind of mom doesn't want her kid to get stuff, if you go with a family gift, i love the photo-opoly game, we have one, then just put him on it too. so that there is no doubt.
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