We started school and this boy (lets say his name is Joe) is new. I have the BIGGEST crush on him. he is basically perfect, REALLY SMART, sweet (he picks up everyones stuff when is falls in the hall etc.), SOOOOOO FUNNY!, and he is basically in "man-hood" (he is 12). he has a DEEP voice, is 5''6. I really wanna talk to him. So far what i said is: Joe- Thank You Me- *Nods Head* Joe- What is review game? Me- Its a game Mr.***** does to prepare for our test. Joe- My birthday is on [January 5] Me- So is mine- And I SUCK at PE when we play a game I get hit on the chest with the ball. Or I sing goofy (though I sing good) in front of him. And when I had an idea for out gift baskets nobody raised there hand and [Amy] the sl*t was saying hey and she pionted at me. and when he had a review game i was against [josh] and he's pretty dumb (and im #2 smartest i the class) and i said "i will so win" but when i lost [joaan] mimicked my voice saying "I will so win" then everyone started laughin, and when my teacher asked what art class i go to i said "Loretta at the Hill" and my teacher said "what hill?" and he started laughing So you see I have went from "dork" to "dorkier" I have told 5 girls and 1 boy (but that boy is NOT his friend, but he is mind so i am safe) Every lunch girls talk to him LIKE AT LEAST 8 8TH GRADE GIRLS SURROUND HIM! He is not really cute, so I dont know why they like him (but you know why I like him). they just like him for is appereance, I like him so much more than that. I need help from being stranger to good friends. But you see he always looks at me in class (probably because hes checking if im looking at him AGAIN!) and today when the teacher said I was to be be an officer he cheered for me. Okay I am NOT allowed to: have him as my boyfriend call him text him touch him (and i am glad about that rule!) you know the basic "girl- boy rule" I just wanna know how to talk to him, and be kinda (not too much) flirty. But the problem is when I flirt i have this big guily feeling and i spill it out to my parents (and my parents have gotten mad at me becuase of a recent boy i texted). Maybe you can give me advice on those kind of stuff. and by the way, the school is having a carnival next month and i wanna know if i can do something there BUT I CANT RIDE ANYTHING WITH HIM (my life sucks). So.... Any tips? what to wear? how to act? I cant let my mom know i have a crush cuz last time i let her know she made fun of me and would give me pregnancy lecture (IM OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW MY LIMIT WITH A BOY GOSH!) and she would always sneak up if i talk to him and stuff. So if you can give me advice you would be my hero!!. This Is from the 7th Grader with a BOY problem. Thanks!
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Okay, First off girl, you're so young!! Enjoy life, have fun while you can. i wish i did!! I crushed over the same guy my whole middle school years, and I wish i would have said something to him now. I'm Out of High school and moved states already, So I won't have a chance to get those years back. Enjoy life right now! You don't have to worry about a lot, so stop stressing about boys, Girl! I'll give you my opinions about the problem though. I think that you should just be yourself, that's how you'll know the guy likes you for you. Even if you just want him as a friend, It's better to act yourself no matter what. Take your smarts and use 'em girl! I went all through elementary, middle and High school with a reading and math problem. I got made fun of for being dumb. Girl, Be proud of your brains!! As for the carnival, Just go and have fun. Take a friend with you so you can ride some rides with her, Wear something casual. nothing to dressy, nothing too lazy either! Like say, (depending on the weather) wear shorts or Capri's, and a cute shirt! Act like yourself. Don't be someone who your not. Specially at your age! If you're scared to tell your mom, then don't say anything. at least not right now! Your mother shouldn't make fun of you for having a crush anyhow. You should sit down and talk to her about how she makes you feel when she acts like that. Just let her know you are growing up and you are responsible with your Acton's. that you would like to have boys as Friends, but nothing like dating. So you can be able to text and talk to them, but nothing further! I really hope this has helped. good Luck Girl! Just talk to him, be yourself, and enjoy life! I hope i have helped you.
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