Long story short, there is a friend of mine I havent talked to in about a month. I made her quite mad. Due to a death in my family, I am moving back overseas and probably will not return to the States for a very long time. Should I contact her one last time? I was thinking of sending a fruit gift basket with a little note attached or should I just leave things the way they are? I have sent a letter of apology to her via regular mail and flowers and no response on her end. I just hate leaving things unsaid. What would be some of the polite things to send to her?
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What have you left unsaid? You have tried; either she has rejected or neither the letter nor the flowers were delivered. Since you sent two items, you have redundant backup -- I would doubt that BOTH missed their way. If you didn't say you were moving overseas in the letter, you could try one more time with that information, but if you did say that before, then you've already said it, and the ball is in her court, and she just chooses not to serve it back; tossing more at her won't change anything and might just anger her more.
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