My fiance and I broke up at the end of Dec. I questioned his relationship with an ex-- and he denied any involvement. He then broke out "I need time" and promptly began sleeping with her. He has barely spoken to me--and I mean 10 min total-- since then and when he does its with contempt and total hatred. I realize that he is projecting-- whatever... But after trying my best to make communication possible-- it just isnt happening. It's almost as if im dealing with two different men-- very strange. However, today I got to the point where Im looking around my house and I see all of the gifts he has given me and it just makes me so sad. So, I worte a very nice note saying listen I dont want these around me they remind me of you- and you wont even speak to me. I have no idea what has happened, but I cant continue to be miserable like this especially if you dont care. take care. I put everything neatly in a nice basket and went to his house. She was there. I went to put it on the front porch and he opened the door. I smiled, said hi, and he looks at the basket and looks at me with a stricken look on his face and asks "WHAT THE HELL IS THIS?!?" and I just said " my best to you and the horse." (i think she is ugly and horselike) and I walked off. I feel ok about it--- but why would he freak out like that when he hasnt even spoken to me?
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because he realized that he can no longer count on being able to hook up with you. he had a backup plan until then
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