Bridesmaid Drama!!!!!?

so this weekend my mother was telling me that my brother's fiance isn't speaking to her. my brother's fiance is going to be one of my bridesmaids. my mother wouldn't tell me why she wasn't speaking to her, and my mother was very upset over this. in tears, etc. so i finally got it out of my mother why my brother's fiance was not speaking to her...... she was upset because i am having gift baskets to give away as prizes at my bridal shower and she thinks that this was HER idea for HER shower and i was stealing her ideas! like wtf! doesn't everyone give away gift baskets as prizes for a bridal shower?!? she was also mad that i chose navy blue as my bridesmaid dress color and SHE is having an ice blue color. so she thinks that i am copying her on this factor too! i chose navy because it is my favorite color! not because she is having a different shade of blue. so my brother's fiance called me and told me that she would not be participating in my wedding because i am copying....
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OMG... can you say BRIDEZILLA.... (not you, her) She needs to grow up and be an adult.. As you can tell it is probally better that she not be in the wedding.. if she cant deal with small issues in an adult manner she needs to walk... If she had an issue with anything she should of came to you and discussed it with you, not your mom.. Just let it go.. She is the one showing her immaturity.. I dont see anything that you are copying.. You are your own person.. she needs to get a life.. My drama.. Didnt come from the bridesmaid side.. It was from the groomsman side.. One guy we called & emailed for a week and half giving him info and when to be there for things.. No response.. The day of the wedding, a no show.. We had to pull one of our ushers to fill in.. A week later I seen him and asked what happened.. He said his dad came down and he wanted to spend time with him.. About a week after he told the truth.. He didnt like weddings and just didnt want to go... JERK..
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