This guy that I have not talked to in over a month and a half, keeps wanting me to forgive him. He sent me a letter of apology about a month ago and a small bouquet of flowers. His daughter died about 2 months ago and he said he wants to make it up to me, for his own redemption and the guilt he feels over losing his daughter. I received a fruit and flower gift basket from him on Friday and a note that explained why he was being so persistant about my forgiving him, that each person that forgives him means a little less guilt he feels about not being able to save his daughter. I am not sure if I should forgive him, tell him to go away, or keep ignoring him like I have.
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Since you didn't say what happened in the first place it is hard to have an opinion on if you should forgive him or not. But honestly even if strangers feel you should forgive him that doesn't necessarily mean that you will be able to. Forgiveness is a very personal thing that you have to feel on your own. Sometimes your just not able to forgive someone. If your truelyl hurt then just because strangers feel you should forgive isn't really a good reason to forgive.
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