Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Keep asking for her forgiveness or let it go?

I have been trying to patch up things with a friend for almost 2 months now and still no answer from her. She has not responsed to my emails, text messages, phone calls or nothing. I am going to be in her area next week and I sent her a message saying I would like to meet her face to face so I can apologize to her and still no response from her. Should I try once more, when I get to her area next week or just leave it at that? I was thinking of sending her a gift basket once I arrive next week, in case she does not want to meet with me still.
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I think you should let her get over her anger/pain in her own time. If you are sincerely sorry for whatever happened and asked for her forgiveness, then it is up to her to respond. You might want to drop a short note like "I am so sorry for my behavior. I will respectfully give you time to heal from the anger and pain. I hope at some point in the future you will be able to forgive me." Send it off and forgive yourself.
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