my parents mostly my dad are against my girlfriend we are arabic and she is american i kept her a secret for a while then i told them i haven't done anything wrong my entire life and now they're acting like i killed someone and they really hate her guts they don't even know her name she bought them a gift basket shes trying to make good how can you hate some that has done nothing to you except try and get you to like her i love my girlfriend more then anything in the world when i told him of her he said it wont last more then 5 weeks 2 months max we've been Official together for almost a year they think this is my first girlfriend but its not ive had plenty before this ive been cheated on and hurt and i know she wont do that to me no one i know approves of us no one at all i don't know what to do and i really am not happy with my life at all i hate being at home i hate my siblings my parents my house i hate everyone anyone everything and anything the only time im happy is with her summer 2012 ill be moving out and going to Rolla MO. for school and she will be living with me but i want that sooner but no way my parents will let me leave but i really don't think i can take my families **** anymore im about to explode im really like about to go crazy and its the same at her house and she wants out as well i don't and will not lose her over some bullshit what should i do want can i do to get my parents to approve or make them let me leave
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The first thing you should somehow do is have a good long talk with them, Keep your voice low and serious. Keep eye contact and tall them how much you love ur girlfriend. Tell them that it is your choice if you choose to get your feelings hurt (if you do), and tell them that you can take care of yourself. If the talk doesn't go well, then the best the to do is save up your money; and when you have enough - run away. Find a place of your own. You should not have to be confined or broken because of your family. They are the ones you are supposed to love and trust the most and you can't be yourself around them. Tell them that. I wish you good luck, my friend.
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