Wanting some advice on what to get him.?

Ok so Valentines Day is around the corner, I have been with my husband for 11yrs (we are still young though, im 24 and hes 28) and Im not very good at getting him things and he not very good at it either, we have gotten to the point where we write wish lists lol! well I told him i want him to do something romantic for me. so now im stuck on what im going to do for him, No tools, wallets, lingerie, or anything like that. and hes not really into anything, he works and when hes home if hes not spending time with my daughter and i he is playing his xbox360. I thought about sending him a gift basket but they really dont make much for guys. I have been working on a love letter, we havent done that in a while so i thought maybe writtin down my feelings about us and our love might be a little romantic but cmon guys give me some pointers please!?! I know he hasnt figured out what hes gonna do for me yet because he told me, but im sure its gonna be good, so mine at least needs to be descent lol! thanks for readin and answering
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do a candle light dinner at home, take him by the hand sit on his lap and tell him why you love him from your heart, tell him why you need him and tell him why still after 11 yrs together if you could why you'd do it all again. It's seriously romantic, it's seriously sexy and he's seriously gonna love it... Happy Valentine's day!
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