It's a long long story about everything but basically I hate my husbands parents and I have decided to no longer have a relationship with them.. My son's birthday is next month and I am unsure what to do.. My husbands step mother is a very very rude person and my mom is a fighter.. I would invite them (even though I don't want to be around them) But I know my mom will end up fighting with her.. she never has but its been building.. I wouldn't be worried about it if I knew she wasn't going to make a rude remark about something because she always does.. I don't want them there and neither does anyone else.. On top of that I know that she is going to rip him off on his gifts and that will just make me so mad! I know because she already does.. ALWAYS!! Just one example is for easter she got my son a rubber duck and bought her granddaughters so much stuff she couldn't fit it in their basket and was bragging about it.. how she couldn't fit it all in their baskets thats just one example and last yr she showed me a toy she got him at a yard sale and said that it was for his first birthday.. and I'm sure she isn't getting him anything else because thats how she is not that everything is about material things but she makes it a point to treat my son different then everyone else as well as my husband.. (his dad makes 100 grand a yr) and when my husband tells his dad these things he doesn't believe him.. Should I just not invite them.. I certainly don't want them their and I know whats going to happen :( as sad as it makes me.. Here is another question I posted about them before explaining some of it but its long http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;… WHAT TO DO? Thanks
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no i don't think that u should invite her. it's like you could invite her if you first have a conversation with her telling her how her attitude affects you, and asking her to tone it down. but on top of everything you get stink gifts. no she isn't worth the trouble at all.
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