Hi guys and gals, I have been spending time with a girl at my college. We have only spent four days together, but she has mentioned how it feels like we've known each other for ten years. I feel the same and have developed feelings for her. I am taking her out to a lake today. Should I tell her that I have feelings for her? How do I know if she likes me? Also, I know this is cheesy, but I've never been out with a girl. What is the proper "code" for conduct? Is a basket of flowers a good gift idea?
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Don't directly say it. Show that you like her by listening to what she has to say and being yourself. It will become obvious how you feel and you will achieve the same thing without risking anything anyway! Personally, I would hold off the gifts for a while as they can put early pressure on a relationship. If you must get a gift, get something amusing and inexpensive. As long as you continue to be yourself, you are fine. Although you feel close to this person already, bear in mind that you have known her for four days. Take your time, there is no rush! Of course she will know how you feel in the end! It is not like she will run away if you don't say all the highest romantic things. Don't scare her away.
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