I have been in a relationship for half a year now and already he is talking about getting married. We are very comfortable with one another and I am very much in love with him. However, I have this feeling that he might not be over his ex. They separated a year before I met him, but he works with her and they still communicate regularly. Whenever we go out, if he sees a friend of her's, he'll pretend we're not in a relationship or insist we leave wherever we are. They still get each other little gifts, like on Valentine's day she gave him a huge basket of goodies. He came home yesterday and she had gotten him gifts from a trip to England. He still talks to her and texts her often and is in contact with her family. He goes and gets after-work drinks with coworkers and she's with him. I trust him and don't think he would ever betray me, but I am concerned that he might still have feelings for her and this makes me very uncomfortable. Knowing they talk often and intimately makes me very insecure. My past relationship I was cheated on and emotionally and physically abused, so I feel like this might put me more on edge than usual. I love him very much, but I don't want to be a rebound either. Does anyone have advice or insight?
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Beware, I'm sure he still has feelings for his ex, it sucks. If he really over his ex, he will totally ignore her, that means no chats, no calls, no connection. Considering you're getting married. I'm sry but if I were you, I would leave~
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