So confused?

A friend of 10 years buys you a lovely moses basket and bracelet for your first child and nice gifts for your second. Buys bday gifts and xmas gifts but this is only the good things 1. tells me my bf came on to her, but then when i say ill have a word changes the story 2. when i had a flat on my own never visited only when she wanted to go clubbing 3. drops me whenever a new friend came along 4. Ruined my birthday by announing her sister in law had cancer before my meal even though diagnosed 1 week before 5. when i call her re my depression she never came to see me. 6. arranged a hen night came to help me pick my dress but then told my friends if they cant come to the day then cant come on the nighttime. 7 have a go at me on my wedding day accuse me of upsetting my husband by having a drink the night before even though he was fine with it. 8 talk about me behind my back to her cousin I just dont understand why shes like this any ideas? I feel quilty about her generousity
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No Rachel, this is NOT your fault!! This 'generosity' she keeps lavishing on you - i would seriously question the motive behind it. If she is the only friend who makes you feel like this and you have no problems with other friends, then this person has issues and it sounds as if she's using you. For your own sanity i think the time has come to say enough is enough. If you don't feel able to tell her face to face, then write a letter explaining how all this is affecting you and that it would be best if you both went your separate ways. Hope this helps, be strong and don't back down. Good luck & take care xx
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