For mothers day I wanted to give my mother-in-law some flowers and a gift basket. I made the gift basket but when I bought the flowers they were in a cheap clear plastic casing and i wanted to put it in a vase. Scrambling for time i had to think quick and since i dont ever receive flowers myself i didnt have a vase. On my mantle i have a really pretty ceramic pitcher i got as a wedding my dilemma but i did want my vase back (tacky sure but we are pretty close). Well she wasnt there so i had to leave it on her door step. She calls me a few hours later and tell me not only does she love her basket but especially loves the pitcher "i gave her" I was tongue tied. Its one of my favorite things but i feel like a brat for asking for it back. Do I: A.) suck it up it was my fault B.) we are family and nicely ask for it back???
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Since you are close, I would discuss it with her. Once she realizes how important this is to you, she will probably understand. I would in the same situation. Apologize for the misunderstanding and go from there. In the meantime, you can try to find one to replace it for her by calling the person who gave it to you. I wouldn't tell them that you accidently gave away their gift, but explain to them how much it is admired and they will feel flattered that their present is so well liked and appreciated. I'm sure that your mother-in-law would appreciate anything you give her as long as it is truly heartfelt.
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