Ok well first, when me and my husbend got married his mother kept asking him if he wanted to do this, i ignored it at first but now that i think about it, it aggrivats me bc i have never had an issue with his family befor. The day of the wedding NONE of his uncles or cousins went, they knew of the invitation but didnot show up, when we asked them why didnt they, they came out with the excuse "idk"....WTF! Well most of his uncles live in Michigan and we live in missouri, so i didnt get to mad untill i herd they came down for everyone elses. Now nxt, his cousin had a baby shower, they came down for that exactly a MONTH after our wedding. Now we are expecting a baby and NONE of them came to the shower and we havent received anything from his side only my side. His uncle gives out baby baskets when anyone is expecting a baby in the family...havent got anything and when my husbends sister asked if we was going to be recieving any he said he didnt know bc hes not the one who dies them, his wife is...and she questioned our marriage so i dont see us getting anything... I havent done anything to affend these people, i have showed up for any of their family events and such but have got nothing in return! We supported His cousin when she had her baby by going to the shower+gift and When the baby was born, she has done nothing for our baby.. Am i just overreacting bc im 36weeks pregnant or is there really a problem here. I dont want to ignor his family because i dont want to hurt him, he understandes that his family is being ignorant and dont know why but this makes me not want to even visit with them anymore...what should i do!? Please help, iv been sittin ghere crying all night so far because my family has gave and showed so much and nothing out of his but ignorants and they want us to give give give. Any advise will be helpfull and thankyou for reading!!
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you are not over reacting at all, there is clearly a problem here. his family clearly are against your marriage for some reason, and you know what, i wouldn't invite them to any events in the future, because simply they don't want to show and are very rude. they are treating you and your baby as if you stole their son/cousin/nephew, and it's really pathetic. i would be so blunt towards them, so they can have a taste of their own medicine, i wouldn't send them any baby photos, or invite them in after you have the bub, i wouldn't let them see him/her, i would just unattach myself from them, you don't deserve that, you have done nothing wrong. to be mature, i would sit your husband down along with his mother and would just say why are you treating us like this....polity confront them with your husband at your side. the answer will help you
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